How To Woo A Taurus
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If you are in love with a Taurus then you better not stray from any expectations that you set up in their mind at your first meeting. If you have sold yourself to them at all with even the tiniest of exaggerations and they find out they will not only be offended, they may hold a grudge against you that lasts the rest of your life. Only the Taurus may be vague.
Bulls are very simple, expedient people. They don't like complex individuals and are expert at profiling individuals. In fact one of the most frustrating things about a Taurus is that they are the types that will introduce you to others but leave out a crucial detail. For instance they are liable to introduce you as "Judy who owns a pug dog" as opposed to "Judy who won the Giller Prize for fiction and also owns a pug dog." They will also forget if you change a detail. For instance if you were "Mark who works in accounting" then you will still be "Mark who works in accounting" ten years from now even though you are now even though you quit your job to run a bed and breakfast. So if you are in love with a Taurus prepare to spend a lifetime of having everything about you reduced to its lowest common denominator.
A Taurus doesn't like surprises. Don't think that you are going to add excitement to your first date by inviting a Bull to go bungee jumping. The practical Bull also sees spending money at expensive restaurants as a waste. It is also common for a Bull to prefer experience reality to seeing a movie. They really are the most down to earth people in the Zodiac. They are also very charitable in nature and are happiest when working with children, pets or with artists.
If you want to impress a Taurus on a first date take them to an art exhibition, a garden show or an arts and crafts store. Many of them have a much better time in Home Depot then they ever would at a fancy ball. They also enjoy driving around the neighborhood to estimate the price of housing.
Yet another thing that the sensitive Taurus dislikes is sleeping in a bed that is not their own. If you want to seduce a Taurus you have a better chance of succeeding if you do it on his or her own turf.
You are also more likely to impress a Taurus by making him or her a home cooked dinner that is well executed, hearty and healthy. Think Norman Rockwell! Their favorite moment is just after dinner when everyone is talking and enjoying wine and coffee.
They also enjoy brunches and barbecues and are happiest if you also allow them to bring along their extended family members and loyal fans. Although they are not a glamorous sign most Taurus natives do have friends that will become a daily fixture in your lives together because they are so trustworthy.
It is better to take a Taurus on a walk through a local park rather than plan a trip to Las Vegas or Rome. If you take them on a romantic trip most of them can't wait to get back to their families and friends. They are very clannish and don't want to miss one single minute of their children's or parent's lives.
Taurus natives are also notoriously insecure. They are suspicious of people who have money or who are more popular or successful than them. Be sure to make your Bull the center of attention at all times or you could find yourself in a long, messy and very personal altercation with them later.
More so then most signs, Bulls are prone to jealousy. Even though they are slow to rise to passion they are very fervent and emotional people. You don't want to face the wrath of a Taurus who is under the delusion that you will leave them for someone else. This is why it is very important, if you are dating a Taurus to make your boundaries and intentions clear as soon as is possible in your relationship. Leaving a Taurus wondering about what is going to happen in the future is like giving am emotional terrorist a firecracker.
When it comes to gift they really do appreciate something that is of some value. The exception is if you made it yourself in which case they are likely to rush out and frame it.
As they are ruled by Venus, Taurus natives are very sensual, tactile people. They love soft rich fabrics such as silk or cashmere. If your vehicle or living room is outfitted with leather seats they are in heaven. They also love floral perfumes and many of the women collect expensive high-heeled shoes but never wear them. This is because they can't wear them out into the mud in their gardens or chase their pets or kids in them.
One of the worst things you can do to a Taurus is accuse him or her of being slow. The members of this astrological sign really do need to do things in their own time and at their own pace or they become flustered and upset.
However, ironically one of the worst things that you can do is keep a Bull waiting. They are also very snappy with waiters that don't deliver their food in a prompt fashion, if the mailman doesn't deliver the mail on time and if you don't remember their birthday. Missing an anniversary or important holiday is reason for permanent dismissal from the Bull's life.
If you really want to appeal to a Taurus then start creating your own little ritual or routines with him or her. The Bull loves to do the same thing over and over. For instance if you always end your walk in the park with a trip to the ice cream cart then make sure you do it again and again. This makes the Taurus native feel like you understand him or her and that the two of you are connected on a deep wordless level.
In the next article... we will look at the way in which a Gemini can be wooed.