How To Woo A Libra

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If you are attracted to a Libra you will sooner or later feel a bit like a cat that is trying to catch a butterfly. These ethereal creatures are hard to pin down simply because they are famous for being indecisive. They are always courting several romantic possibilities at once. They are easily smothered and if you show jealousy just once they will run!

People born under the sign of the Scales are very elusive and have senses of humor that almost seem designed to keep intimacy away. It can take ages before you get a straight answer out of them. This is so you don't get too close and ask them to make a decision.

They also like to make the first move (even the women) and will lose interest quickly in a person that they don't feel in control of or that they feel they no longer have to chase. The last thing you want to happen with a Libra is to be put on the back burner.

To complicate matters further, Libras are beautiful or handsome to lots of people. They have a lot of friends and also like to have more than one lover so you might have a lot to compete with in order to get their amorous attentions.

Libras respond best to being doted on. If you want to impress a Libra volunteer to run errands for them. This makes them feel treasured and cared for. They tend to be the most loyal to the partner that is the most parental as they are all big kids at heart.

Of course this Libran child-like tendency works both for you and against you. On one hand the Libra is incredibly entertaining but on the other he or she might seem quite immature especially if a disagreement arises. Both male and female Libras are known for their emotional tantrums. That is why they say, "There is nothing meaner than an out of balance Libra."

A carefree Libra loves to have fun and has a great time going to the zoo, swimming or exploring the woods. They are quite restless in confined situations such as the theater and are better off dancing in clubs. However don't take them to a club that is too loud as most of them are very sensitive to noise.

Pamper these creatures of Venus in any way that you can think of. Foot rubs, long baths, back rubs really appeal to them as do shopping trips for furniture or clothing. Female Librans also like to be bought make up, shoes and clothing. The males appreciate things like designer belts or designer suits. Unlike other signs this one will wear louder, brighter and trendier clothing. They are also quicker to go under the knife to look young than other signs (especially the females.)

One word of warning Ð never give a Libra your credit card. They are notorious for running up huge charges. They can be very impulsive and say things to themselves like, "You only live once." This is also how they end up being unfaithful as well.

Likewise you should dress as trendy and as fashionable as possible. Libras love dandies as they are very visual people and they also love the idea of sexual role-playing. It is possible that any Libra that you go out with is also a bit kinky. Once you get close, the Libra often appreciates sex toys and lingerie as gifts.

They also love being complimented on their good taste. A good project for either a male of female Libra that you want to get close to is to ask him or her to decorate your place. They will see this as a real compliment. They love to be appreciated for their creative abilities and many of them really do have an eye for design. They are also really great homemakers and know how to organize a place and make it feel comfortable.

Both male and female Libras are great cooks but they also enjoy the one on one camadarie of a lover cooking a good meal for them. If you manage to get them into bed, try serving them breakfast in bed and they will be very impressed.

Another thing that a Libra enjoys is a good debate. This means that you must be familiar with all of the contemporary issues. Most of them are also culture vultures who keep up with the latest tabloid gossip. They have great senses of humor so visiting a comedy club is a really good idea for a first date with a Libra.

In essence a Libra doesn't like pressure. You simply will not be able to force a Libra to do anything. They don't like to be told to hurry up especially when they are getting dressed. You also can't make them be civil to anyone that you like but he or she doesn't. The more you force a Libra the more he or she will do the exact opposite of what you want. It won't even be purposeful. Libras resist control from others on a deep subconscious level.

One of the things that Libras are notorious for is infidelity. This is because they don't like to be pressured into commitment. Of course being the sign of balance, Libra natives also have a hard time making a decision about anything. Despite this it is a bad idea to pressure them into making a decision as they will quickly feel smothered and run away.

As Libra natives are such children at heart the best thing you can do for him or her is to offer unconditional love and a routine. They really thrive if they know that the same thing might happen day after day or week after week. Once they have this type of security in place most of them will stop seeing multiple partners. They only reason they have several lovers going at once is so that they have a Plan A if Plan B does not work out for them romantically.

Kindness, a comfortable atmosphere and good-natured tolerance are qualities that Libra really appreciates in a partner. Many of them are very sweet and love to hold hands with their partners. If you are uncertain how to get started with a Libra try holding his or her hand.

In the next article... we will take a look at a few of a Scorpio's favorite things when it comes to courtship.