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		<title>How to Woo a Pisces</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The way to woo a Pisces is to make sure that he or she knows that you are playing for keeps. This is the sign of soulmates and like penguins, Pisces natives like to mate for life. Loyalty is very important to this sign so make sure you make your intentions clear from the beginning. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The way to woo a Pisces is to make sure that he or she knows that you are playing for keeps. This is the sign of soulmates and like penguins, Pisces natives like to mate for life. Loyalty is very important to this sign so make sure you make your intentions clear from the beginning. They like to be courted, slowly, formally and with great sincerity.  </p>
<p>They will not tolerate being less than number one in your life and from the point at which your relationship begins with one you will not be able to make another decision in your life ever again without consulting him or her.</p>
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<p>Pisces probably take relationships more seriously then just about any other sign in the horoscope. The way to their heart is to make your entire life about their ambitions, dreams and goals. If you are not willing to share everything that you have, including your money, then you are not likely to impress a Pisces. They believe in joint bank accounts.</p>
<p>Pisces are also a very emotionally insecure sign.  You may have to always reassure them that they are number one. The way to do this is by giving them somewhat pricey gifts but also to spend as much quality time with them as possible. This means taking long walks with them, holding their hands and kissing. </p>
<p>Like Gemini, Pisces is a sign of companionship. There is a twin fish in the Zodiac symbol for Pisces and fishes of both sexes are always looking for &#8216;the other.&#8217;  A Pisces will expect you to hold his or her hand no matter where you are together.  You must always only have eyes for him or her. Even if you find someone else in the room attractive you have to tell your Pisces companion about it. A Pisces person is most likely to fall in love with the person who shows the willingness to be with him or her every minute of the day. You are also not expected to keep any secrets from him or her, no matter how ugly the truth is.</p>
<p>They are also very sensual creatures and love good food, resting and just enjoying simple quality with one other person. They are very turned off by surprises or third parties that might intrude on the autonomy of the relationship. Many Pisceans do not do well with divorced people or people who need to spend time with children from other marriages.  They can get very jealous of your past relationships so make sure you spare them the details of your old relationships as much as possible.</p>
<p>Pisces individuals also love seafood, trips to the beach, anthropology, history and religious subjects. They are happy visiting museums or just settling down with a good book that you can read in bed together.  Many of them are also very fond of classical music as it moves their soul and puts them in the mood.</p>
<p>As Pisces is the sign that loves water it is also no surprise that they would love a trip to an exotic resort.  They also love visiting gardens, waterfalls and places that have fountains.  A good gift to woo a female Fish is to give her a trip to a day spa. Pisces women love to be pampered.</p>
<p>Both Pisces men and women love jewelry of all kinds. A watch, tennis bracelet or expensive ring is a good gift for this sign.</p>
<p>Pisces are very fond of animals and many of them are vegetarians. You are also more likely to impress a Pisces if you cook them an organic dinner. Many of them are also quite athletic and would love a partner to work out with every day. Not many of them are that fond of junk food so suggesting a trip to the drive thru at MacDonald&#8217;s is not a good idea.</p>
<p>Pisces is also one of the most romantic of signs and they appreciate a good seduction. Candlelight and mystical settings greatly impress them. Many of them also like to camp under the stars.  It is a good idea not to make the romantic setting too formal.  Pisces like to relax with their lovers rather be too conscious of what they are wearing. They are not really social climbers.  </p>
<p>In fact, Pisces natives find people who are too ambitious to be shallow. They are very conscious of being in the moment and want a person who is &#8216;real&#8217; with them. All Pisces are a bit suspicious of other people and see people that are too popular or ardent as being con artists. </p>
<p>If you are in a relationship with a Pisces it is an absolute no-no to talk about what goes on between the two of you with other people. Even if you are relaying the most innocuous of details the Pisces may see it as a betrayal.</p>
<p>Probably the very worst thing you can do is try to make this highly sensitive and emotional sign jealous. They become very quickly and deeply attached to those they are attracted to and do not enjoy playing any of the usual courtship games.  Even the slightest dalliance with a member of the opposite sex can make them insane and not in a good way.</p>
<p>A jealous Pisces can also be absolutely Satanic in their quest for revenge. You simply do not want one on your case. Once jealous, a feud between a jealous Pisces and a lover can last for years. Just a heads up in case you don&#8217;t know what you are getting into when you meet one of these often very attractive members of the zodiac.</p>
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		<title>How to Woo an Aquarius</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are falling for an Aquarian be prepare to deliver a lot of compliments.  They can be quite narcissistic. Aquarians crave recognition, especially for their ideas and creativity, so your key to winning one&#8217;s heart is to treat him or her like a celebrity. This means being taking them to the latest hot [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are falling for an Aquarian be prepare to deliver a lot of compliments.  They can be quite narcissistic. Aquarians crave recognition, especially for their ideas and creativity, so your key to winning one&#8217;s heart is to treat him or her like a celebrity. This means being taking them to the latest hot spots and allowing them to expand their social circle unhindered by jealousy or territorialism. </p>
<p>If you are going to love a &#8220;flaky&#8221; Aquarius then prepared to develop a thick skin as they are likely to throw the status quo back in your face in someway. It is often the Aquarius that seems to be flirting with a new beau when just the night before you had been told how much you were loved. As they are so free willed, intelligent and high spirited the words unconditional love definitely come to mind.</p>
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<p>Socializing is an Aquarian&#8217;s favorite thing but their second favorite thing is to sit down and have a long talk with someone they love. They are excellent one on one companions and make good therapists. They also love to talk about themselves and their long-term goals so be sure to share in his or her enthusiasm for planning the future. </p>
<p>As they are skilled people watchers they also love to analyze other people&#8217;s relationships and usually this is all accomplished with a great sense of humor. Many Aquarians are very witty and expect you to be a sparring partner with them verbally. In this sense you could say the way to one&#8217;s heart is through their ears.</p>
<p>Many Aquarians are also in the habit of collecting a posse of very strange and eccentric friends that you will be expected to embrace with as much enthusiasm as he or she does. Although some of the Aquarian&#8217;s friends may seem downright crazy to you it is best not to comment as these free-spirited star seeds thjat dislikes people who judge others.</p>
<p>This sign also enjoys anything that is on the cutting edge of fashion and culture. If you dress unusually in any way or are a dandy the Aquarian is the one who is going to appreciate it. Although they appreciate innovation and creativity in fashion and design they can also sometimes be a bit snobbish if you are even slightly out of style.</p>
<p>Even though they are progressively minded, they do not like people who are too informal. An Aquarian will expect you to mind your manners even after you have been intimate. This is not the sign that will appreciate you leaving the bathroom door open or love the sight of you prancing around nude. For all of their open mindedness many of them are strangely prudish.</p>
<p>Despite their wild reputation they are also extremely economical. Aquarians really know how to save money and they will not be pleased if you see them splurging on them. They would rather you put money towards a good charity.  You can absolutely end your relationship with an Aquarian if you forget to tip, try to borrow money from them or if they find out you have a bad credit rating. If you do not have your finances in order the Aquarian will see you as having a catastrophic life and avoid you like the plague.</p>
<p>As they love culture, history and anthropology you can take an Aquarian anywhere. They enjoy going to the theater, art exhibits, museums and on nature hikes. They also love window shopping or driving out into the country to browse in little shops for antiques. Your education and how well read you are may also be important to Aquarian.</p>
<p>Aquarians also dislike people who state the obvious or who try to &#8220;hard sell&#8221; them on something. This is why in a romantic relationship it is best to be subtle with an Aquarius and court them over a period of weeks and months. They are also more interested in the courtship phase of romance rather than the actual sexual act. This is because in essence they are actually a very intellectual rather than tactile sign. </p>
<p>Aquarians also don&#8217;t like sloppy emotional scenes. If you want to turn one off then make a sloppy confession of love. Never wear your heart on your sleeve with an Aquarian. The lack of emotional control might turn them off. Many of them are quite frightened by sudden displays of passion, which they interpret as violent. </p>
<p>Aquarians also don&#8217;t like people who are loud, brash or talk about their opinions loudly in public. However when provoked many of them can argue on and on in circles for many hours. In general it is not good to press Aquarians for answer when it comes to any kind of romantic matter. They like to think of themselves as being a bit mysterious and hard to fathom and playing along with that greatly delights them.</p>
<p>Yet another thing you should know about that Aquarian that you have just fallen in love with is that he or she can be very fickle. Aquarius natives love change for change&#8217;s sake and the moment you fail to interest them as a lover he or she will move on. Your challenge as the wooer of an Aquarius is to always keep him or her interested by displaying a great willingness to change yourself.</p>
<p>Aquarians are very attracted to people who are impulsive and spontaneous. As they love surprises you will delight him or her by planning a trip at the last minute. Even better, plan a trip and don&#8217;t tell the Aquarian where you are going.  This is a good idea for a blind date.</p>
<p>In short they like anything unusual, anything that takes them out of a routine and anything that you can bring to them that is exotic, innovative or progressive as long as it does not cost you too much money. If you spend too much on an Aquarian they may feel that there are strings attached to the gift or have a guilty compulsion to return the favor in kind. This can make the Aquarian resent you and drop you.</p>
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		<title>How to Woo a Capricorn</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you want to woo a Capricorn then your best bet is to &#8220;keep it simple, stupid.&#8221; Capricorn natives are compassionate people but they don&#8217;t suffer fools gladly. They also don&#8217;t like people who are waste money or who have bad taste. This is not the time to wear that seventies retro shirt unless it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you want to woo a Capricorn then your best bet is to &#8220;keep it simple, stupid.&#8221; Capricorn natives are compassionate people but they don&#8217;t suffer fools gladly. They also don&#8217;t like people who are waste money or who have bad taste. This is not the time to wear that seventies retro shirt unless it is absolutely in style.</p>
<p>Capricorns like to be slowly and subtly charmed and dislike anyone who is a braggart or over social climber. Overt displays of wealth disgust them. For instance a female Capricorn is more to love someone who drives a Saturn then a Ferrari.</p>
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<p>This is one member of the Zodiac that is very much impressed by a good sense of ethics and a person who is a hard worker. Although they like the good things in life and it is seems like money is everything to them they are also very wise souls.  They are as equally impressed by sincerity and innocence as they are by luxury. This sign is especially impressed by a person that honors their parents and may be one of the few signs of the Zodiac that will jump at the chance to meet them.</p>
<p>If you need to get a Capricorn a gift then you better have deep pockets. It is nothing but the best for these luxury loving beauties of the horoscopes.  Whatever you get them better be of good quality even if it is a cheaper gift. Never settle for an imitation or plastic or the Capricorn will turn up his or her nose at your less than exquisite taste.  Their very favorite expensive gift is jewelry set with an expensive gemstone.</p>
<p>The way a gift is packaged is also very important to a Capricorn. Don&#8217;t bother sending female Capricorn roses unless it comes with a designer vase. This sign is second only to Virgos when it comes to paying attention to little details. In fact the more handcrafted and uniquely wrapped your gift is the more likely the Goat is to appreciate it. They are the type of people that like to frame gift cards or make them part of their decor.</p>
<p>Goats also like natural things such as rattan furniture, chandeliers made out of antlers and sculptural objects found on the beach. If you must buy a male Goat a sweater make sure it is of the highest quality wool or cashmere. They are also very fond of abstract art or art that is a little quirky in some way.</p>
<p>However when it comes to food Capricorn have simple tastes. They are much happier being served a hearty simple meal rather than being treated to a gourmet meal. This is because their tastes are more rustic than the other signs. If you take a Goat out to dinner he or she is more likely to order the pasta or steak rather than any example of Cajun fusion cuisine.</p>
<p>Capricorns also thrive on tons of unconditional support and love so even though they are luxury loving, you also earn big points with them just by being there at the right place and the right time. If you offer to do errands or fix things for a female Capricorn you will win her heart completely. If you offer to decorate a male Capricorn&#8217;s home or garden for him he will begin to see you in a matrimonial light.  This is all part of the Capricorn native&#8217;s need to be treated a little bit like royalty. The more in command they are, the more in love they fall in with the person that desires them.</p>
<p>If you want to impress a Capricorn you should also go to a great effort to schedule one on one quality time with him or her. Making a whole day just about the two of you really impresses a Goat. The worst thing you could do to a Goat romantically is to bring an entourage along with you on a date or start populating time alone with friends or family members. Capricorns have a very deep and almost neurotic need to feel special.</p>
<p>When you are alone with your Capricorn mate you will notice too that he or she gets off on the idea that there is just the two of you and that you are both the members of a secret club. If a Capricorn tells you something in confidence you should endeavor to keep it that way as they really hate people who spill their secrets. They have a delicious and erotic sense of privacy that they fear will be invaded.  </p>
<p>Capricorns also get off on the idea of the secret society. It is pleasing to them to think that they are part of an exclusive group or part of the elite.</p>
<p>If you humiliate a Capricorn in public then you might as well consider the relationship to be over. It is grounds for absolute dismissal of the relationship. </p>
<p>Capricorns tend to have less of a sense of irony than other signs as well. It is not a good idea to tease a Capricorn at all. They are very sensitive and can take things personally. Once they feel that their dignity is assaulted they can obsess over it and hold a grudge for years.</p>
<p>If you do make a mistake with a Capricorn your best bet is to own up, be accountable for your actions and be humble. If you have a fight the best thing you can do is apologize. Capricorns deeply admire individuals who have the guts to admit they are wrong; in fact they may even be turned on by it.</p>
<p>If the Capricorn&#8217;s birthday rolls around it is also a bad idea to throw them a surprise party. Capricorns hate surprises of all kinds, even if it is a good one. They like to be appropriately dressed and prepared for all different occasions.  If you are going on a blind date with Capricorn it is a good idea to make sure that you skip the exotic stuff like bungee jumping.  A highly rated Italian restaurant with a good red wine is a great idea.</p>
<p>Capricorns love to read so a good present is the latest book. They love the classics, fairy tales and big glossy tomes they can show off on their coffee table.  They also love photography and having their photographs taken. They can be very sentimental creatures once they have fallen in love with you and you can expect to find your picture everywhere &#8211; on the refrigerator door, on the mantelpiece and inside your wallet.</p>
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		<title>How to Woo a Sagittarius</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The best way to woo a Sagittarius is to be very direct and open about your feelings while at the same time giving him or her a long leash to do what they want. Although they love expressions of appreciation from a lover they do not like to feel smothered, penned in or hampered in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best way to woo a Sagittarius is to be very direct and open about your feelings while at the same time giving him or her a long leash to do what they want. Although they love expressions of appreciation from a lover they do not like to feel smothered, penned in or hampered in any way by a relationship. The beautiful thing about them however is that once they are smitten they can be the most devoted of partners that offers expressions of commitment and devotion through actions and gifts on an almost daily basis. Having patience with an Archer is definitely worth it.</p>
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<p>If you really want to seem exciting to this sign that loves people then make sure you can take him or her to many loud and busy parties as you can. Make sure that they are attended by a lot of important people or celebrities too.</p>
<p>Sagittarians love to throw parties and go to parties and will also be very impressed if you live in a home that is set up for entertaining large numbers of people.  They are also good social climbers who may be able to introduce you to important people so make sure you always look your best. A Sagittarian will be the first to point it out if you are dressed inappropriately.</p>
<p>Sagittarians are also the champions of unusual or alternative ideas so they love to go to art shows, unique performances and concerts. They also love avante-garde cinema and philosophy.  They can also excel at games like Texas Hold &#8216;Em and they also find any game that has to do with trivia to be a great way to pass the time.</p>
<p>They also love to gamble and watch sports. Even many of the female Archers relish going to a soccer game or going to a casino. They are also usually up for a little mild physical exertion on a first date such as hiking or going for a canoe ride.  </p>
<p>A good idea for quality time spent alone with an Archer would be to cuddle up and watch competitive sports or a trivia show together.</p>
<p>They love to be on the move constantly so the ideal evening for an Archer would be where you attend several events in a short time. Make sure wherever you are going requires that the Sagittarian do a bit of dressing up as many of them are dandies at heart.  They love any social gathering that has a theme so they can add an unusual touch such as a preening. In fact a holiday of any kind is usually the best time to ask the Archer out for a first date. </p>
<p>Sagittarians are also very sensual creatures and they love food and drink, good quality clothing and perfumes and cosmetics. Any gift that is scented, such as a candle or special bottle of olive oil is likely to please a Sagittarius.  </p>
<p>Many Sagittarians are also excellent cooks who love the idea of special gadgets in the kitchen. Unusually shaped cookie cutters or vegetable slicers might appeal to him or her. They also prefer vegetarian or foreign cuisines over bland North American diets.</p>
<p>Being a sign that symbolizes travel, it goes without saying that planning a trip of any kind will please a Sagittarius. They also make excellent traveling companions and you can literally take most Sagittarians anywhere. </p>
<p>Suitcases and tickets to far off exotic lines will definitely take you a long ways towards capturing the Sagittarian&#8217;s admiration and attention.  He or she will feel like you genuinely are a soul mate who is a free spirit too.  If you are going to be with one make sure that you are on a frequent flier program of some kind.</p>
<p>Campers, mini-buses and mobile homes also fascinate Sagittarians. Going across the country in a van just for the sake of seeing the sites is very appealing to a Sagittarius. They also like camping, swimming and nature hikes as long as there is a fancy meal at the end of it. They are not as fond of instant food and prefer well-made or designer cuisine.</p>
<p>The Sagittarian is not too please with people who are not sensible. That is why you should always make sure you are wearing good shoes and suggest activities that are fun and productive. If you have a personal problem or require sympathy in some way the Sagittarian may develop some contempt of you.</p>
<p>On the other end the Archer loves to gossip. Keep this in mind when you make conversation as whatever you say is likely to be repeated to a best friend or even a group of friends. Give the Sagittarian many compliments, as they will repeat them to their friends who will in turn encourage him or her to go out with you. Be like a mirror that never shows the Sagittarius anything else but a flattering image.</p>
<p>The worst thing you can do is accuse a Sagittarius of being dishonest. When it comes to any kind of personal integrity the sun is always shining out of their behind and not anyone else&#8217;s. Do not ever contradict their version of a truth or you could earn their contempt. </p>
<p>Sagittarian natives are less impressed by what you own then by who you know. Many of them appreciate sincerity more than any gift you could ever give them. The nice thing about them is that they are quite flexible socially. In fact the more good friends that you have in your life, the more like the Archer is to be impressed with you.</p>
<p>If you want to immediately sabotage your relationship with an Archer then show any kind of jealousy or controlling behavior. They feel stifled by repeating routines, too many administrative details or quizzes as to what they intend to do with their future. You need to give this social creature as much room to meet other people as possible.</p>
<p>Sagittarians are like the proverbial horse that escapes from the barn. If they escape it is futile to chase them. They will return to you after a few days when they get hungry. </p>
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		<title>How to Woo a Scorpio</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t even think of wooing a Scorpio unless your life has some kind of strong mission or purpose attached to it. Scorpios like individuals that seem attached to a cause. They find people with drive, ambition and determination to be very sexy.  If you don&#8217;t have strong opinions start developing them as a Scorpio [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t even think of wooing a Scorpio unless your life has some kind of strong mission or purpose attached to it. Scorpios like individuals that seem attached to a cause. They find people with drive, ambition and determination to be very sexy.  If you don&#8217;t have strong opinions start developing them as a Scorpio will love you for them even if he or she disagrees with you.</p>
<p>Contrary to popular belief most Scorpios would rather have a cause or a mission as a rival rather than another person. Still it is hard to deny their reputation for becoming the third party in love triangles. Perhaps this is because if a Scorpio does not want something that nobody else wants. However they cannot help but covet what others have.</p>
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<p>For instance, a Scorpio woman will always want a man if she thinks other women want him too. The man can be ugly as sin, broke and a criminal but if she thinks he is wanted by others she will go for it. The same type of principle applies to the Scorpio man. You can be barefoot, pregnant and have two cents to your name but if the Scorpio male thinks that you are an alpha female he will go for it.</p>
<p>Therefore if you want to appear attractive to a Scorpio it is a really good idea to make yourself appear sought after romantically by others. It is also a good idea not to make yourself available immediately. They really respond to such techniques as not returning their phone calls immediately or making vague mentions about how you might be dating someone else. The vaguer you are about what goes on in your life, the more dazzled by you they will be as this allows their prodigious erotic imaginations to focus on you and work overtime.</p>
<p>Individuals who change the rules of the game in the middle of a courtship also fascinate Scorpios. For instance if you have been dating a Scorpio for six weeks and she or he is relatively secure in the fact that he or she is the only one, you can captivate his or her heart&#8217;s forever by pretending to have a second option waiting in the wings.  Pretending to dally with an ex or flirting with another person at a party also really turns a Scorpio on because they connect feeling of jealousy and possessiveness with desire.  The idea is to give them something to be periodically jealous of so that they don&#8217;t get jaded and contemptuous.</p>
<p>Scorpios are also fond of role-playing and are a bit on the kinky side. Take a Scorpio to a costume party or a fetish ball to really excite them. They also like anything to do with the occult, history or anthropology. Things of a mysterious nature also thrill them so be sure to take them to movies that feature themes to do with science fiction or horror.</p>
<p>If you want to keep your relationship with a Scorpio alive then it is a nice idea to plan an evening where the two of you do something like go to the same party and pretend to flirt with other people all night. As long as it is done in the name of having wild sex with Scorpio later, it drives them wild. </p>
<p>They are also great observers of human nature. Books and movies to do with psychiatry, serial killers or unusual human behavior also interest them. They also identify with rituals, such as tattooing. In fact taking a Scorpio to a parlor for a tattooing or piercing is not a bad idea for a gift.</p>
<p>Scorpios are surprising homebodies with the only difference between them and more domestic signs such as Taurus or Libra being that their taste in decor is a bit theatrical. A dramatic piece of sculpture or conversation piece is a great gift for a Scorpio as well.</p>
<p>Scorpios also like to be the undisputed champion in their careers and they will be very drawn to a person who sees them as being the best in their field. Even if your Scorpio amour is not the best at what he or she does you would at least pretend like it is unfair that he or she is not at the top of the heap.</p>
<p>It is also important not to outshine the master. If you are going to be with one of these supreme beings keep in mind that it is a sin to expound upon a subject that they consider themselves to be master of.</p>
<p>The worst thing you can do to a Scorpio is sit them down and ask them a lot of questions. They do not like to be pigeon-holed or categorized whether it be by you or a psychoanalyst. They get off on the idea that they cannot be defined. On the other end they can be merciless interrogators when it comes to finding out about you and if they do find a weakness they may play with it to test your sanity. The thing to do is reveal as little about yourself as possible as that can drive the Scorpio crazy with desire.  </p>
<p>Whatever you do, do not compare the Scorpio to an ex or he or she may become displeased and vengeful.  They must be the undisputed champion of everything and that includes being the undisputed champion of your heart.</p>
<p>One thing about a Scorpio is that if you do get on his or her wrong side you will be subjected to such extreme Scorpio behavior as being frozen out completely. Negation is one of the specialties of the spurned Scorpio.</p>
<p>You can also get off on the wrong foot with a Scorpio by giving them too many compliments too soon or showering them with gifts. They interpret that as manipulation rather than genuine interest.  In fact, if you appear too slavishly devoted or syrupy to a Scorpio in any way then he or she may develop an early contempt to you. You could be frozen out immediately or humiliated in public in some way by the Scorpio flirting with someone else and then taking him or her home.</p>
<p>Even though they are a status conscious sign they are more touched by a hand made gift as that has more meaning. If they feel that somehow you are giving them a piece of your soul then they are very happy. A hand-made card, clay sculpture or doctored photo would be a good gift for a Scorpio. They are the type that treasures this type of thing for years, especially if it is slightly artistic in nature.</p>
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		<title>How to Woo a Libra</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are attracted to a Libra you will sooner or later feel a bit like a cat that is trying to catch a butterfly. These ethereal creatures are hard to pin down simply because they are famous for being indecisive.  They are always courting several romantic possibilities at once. They are easily smothered [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are attracted to a Libra you will sooner or later feel a bit like a cat that is trying to catch a butterfly. These ethereal creatures are hard to pin down simply because they are famous for being indecisive.  They are always courting several romantic possibilities at once. They are easily smothered and if you show jealousy just once they will run!</p>
<p>People born under the sign of the Scales are very elusive and have senses of humor that almost seem designed to keep intimacy away.  It can take ages before you get a straight answer out of them. This is so you don&#8217;t get too close and ask them to make a decision.</p>
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<p>They also like to make the first move (even the women) and will lose interest quickly in a person that they don&#8217;t feel in control of or that they feel they no longer have to chase.  The last thing you want to happen with a Libra is to be put on the back burner.</p>
<p>To complicate matters further, Libras are beautiful or handsome to lots of people. They have a lot of friends and also like to have more than one lover so you might have a lot to compete with in order to get their amorous attentions.</p>
<p>Libras respond best to being doted on. If you want to impress a Libra volunteer to run errands for them. This makes them feel treasured and cared for. They tend to be the most loyal to the partner that is the most parental as they are all big kids at heart.  </p>
<p>Of course this Libran child-like tendency works both for you and against you. On one hand the Libra is incredibly entertaining but on the other he or she might seem quite immature especially if a disagreement arises. Both male and female Libras are known for their emotional tantrums. That is why they say, &#8220;There is nothing meaner than an out of balance Libra.&#8221;</p>
<p>A carefree Libra loves to have fun and has a great time going to the zoo, swimming or exploring the woods. They are quite restless in confined situations such as the theater and are better off dancing in clubs. However don&#8217;t take them to a club that is too loud as most of them are very sensitive to noise.</p>
<p>Pamper these creatures of Venus in any way that you can think of. Foot rubs, long baths, back rubs really appeal to them as do shopping trips for furniture or clothing. Female Librans also like to be bought make up, shoes and clothing. The males appreciate things like designer belts or designer suits. Unlike other signs this one will wear louder, brighter and trendier clothing.  They are also quicker to go under the knife to look young than other signs (especially the females.)</p>
<p>One word of warning &#8211; never give a Libra your credit card. They are notorious for running up huge charges. They can be very impulsive and say things to themselves like, &#8220;You only live once.&#8221;  This is also how they end up being unfaithful as well.</p>
<p>Likewise you should dress as trendy and as fashionable as possible. Libras love dandies as they are very visual people and they also love the idea of sexual role-playing. It is possible that any Libra that you go out with is also a bit kinky. Once you get close, the Libra often appreciates sex toys and lingerie as gifts.</p>
<p>They also love being complimented on their good taste. A good project for either a male of female Libra that you want to get close to is to ask him or her to decorate your place. They will see this as a real compliment. They love to be appreciated for their creative abilities and many of them really do have an eye for design. They are also really great homemakers and know how to organize a place and make it feel comfortable.</p>
<p>Both male and female Libras are great cooks but they also enjoy the one on one camadarie of a lover cooking a good meal for them. If you manage to get them into bed, try serving them breakfast in bed and they will be very impressed.</p>
<p>Another thing that a Libra enjoys is a good debate. This means that you must be familiar with all of the contemporary issues. Most of them are also culture vultures who keep up with the latest tabloid gossip. They have great senses of humor so visiting a comedy club is a really good idea for a first date with a Libra.</p>
<p>In essence a Libra doesn&#8217;t like pressure. You simply will not be able to force a Libra to do anything. They don&#8217;t like to be told to hurry up especially when they are getting dressed. You also can&#8217;t make them be civil to anyone that you like but he or she doesn&#8217;t. The more you force a Libra the more he or she will do the exact opposite of what you want. It won&#8217;t even be purposeful. Libras resist control from others on a deep subconscious level.</p>
<p>One of the things that Libras are notorious for is infidelity. This is because they don&#8217;t like to be pressured into commitment. Of course being the sign of balance, Libra natives also have a hard time making a decision about anything. Despite this it is a bad idea to pressure them into making a decision as they will quickly feel smothered and run away.</p>
<p>As Libra natives are such children at heart the best thing you can do for him or her is to offer unconditional love and a routine. They really thrive if they know that the same thing might happen day after day or week after week. Once they have this type of security in place most of them will stop seeing multiple partners. They only reason they have several lovers going at once is so that they have a Plan A if Plan B does not work out for them romantically.</p>
<p>Kindness, a comfortable atmosphere and good-natured tolerance are qualities that Libra really appreciates in a partner. Many of them are very sweet and love to hold hands with their partners. If you are uncertain how to get started with a Libra try holding his or her hand.</p>
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		<title>How to Woo a Virgo</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wooing a Virgo can be a challenge as they are very suspicious of anything new. Chances are that they are stuck in a routine in which they have absolute control and that may not be designed to accommodate a newcomer. This means that you must cleverly insinuate yourself into the Virgo&#8217;s life without the Virgo [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wooing a Virgo can be a challenge as they are very suspicious of anything new. Chances are that they are stuck in a routine in which they have absolute control and that may not be designed to accommodate a newcomer. This means that you must cleverly insinuate yourself into the Virgo&#8217;s life without the Virgo noticing.</p>
<p>Virgo&#8217;s are often called the control freaks of the horoscope. They usually invent a world and live in it. This is usually not a fantasy world (like something an Aquarius would create to amuse his or her friends.) It is usually a very practical construction that enables workaholicism or reaching a long-term goal in some way.</p>
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<p>Virgos will not consider a partner that is not willing to be part of a grand plan. You must be willing to commit and build an empire. The Virgo&#8217;s friends and family must also approve you before the relationship will move ahead. They don&#8217;t take their life or their relationships casually. If you are not looking to build a future with the Virgo that you like then you will probably not get far with him or her.</p>
<p>If you do make a date with the Virgo then you are certain to be slotted in somewhere in his or her schedule. The worst thing you can do is be late as impatient Virgos see that as a sign from God that you are &#8220;not the one.&#8221;</p>
<p>You also need to make sure that you are perfectly groomed. No cat hairs or dandruff on your clothing need apply. Virgos really appreciate scent so one way to attract one is to wear a designer perfume or aftershave of some kind.</p>
<p>You should also avoid wearing loud or brightly colored clothing, or clothing that is too trendy. A Virgo appreciates fine linens, silks and cottons that are in fashionable, yet muted tones.</p>
<p>You should also avoid being vague. When you tell a story make sure that you explain everything fully or you will be interrogated. Virgos are not huge conversationalists in the first place so idle chit chat is not their favorite form of discourse. They also hate people who are gossips or interested in matters that are silly or below their dignity. You&#8217;ll never catch a Virgo buying a celebrity tabloid for instance.</p>
<p>It is also a big mistake to whine or complain about anything in front of a Virgo. They have a real work ethic and have contempt for people who are too emotional. They also have no patience for self-centered people.  </p>
<p>Never openly confess your love for a Virgo. They would find that embarrassing. They are much more flattered by a written message or a gift that expresses your feelings. Make sure that it is a traditional gift, like jewelry and that it is in good taste. Virgos don&#8217;t like gaudy or trendy things.</p>
<p>Virgos really paying too much for things or sitting for long periods of time without being productive. They dislike going to the theater and concerts for this reason. They are very jazzed up by the idea of working for charity or participating in some kind of hobby that could also somehow make them money. Suggesting taking a photography or jewelry course of some kind might be a good idea for a Virgo.</p>
<p>Keep in mind that Virgos have an extremely critical eye. They will immediately assess you to see if you are a likely candidate to be a life long partner. They will notice everything and record it including how much you tip, whether you keep the cap on the toothpaste done and what side you part your hair on.  Every single aspect of your life will be open to criticism and if you want the relationship to thrive it is best just to take the Virgo&#8217;s advice.</p>
<p>If you have a Virgo over to your house make sure it is as neat as a pin. Polish your taps and cleans your surfaces. Virgos really are the stereotype that will run their finger along the ledge of your windowsill to see if there is any dust.</p>
<p>If there is one thing that Virgos really hate it is people who promise to change their ways and then don&#8217;t. Never promise to make the bed before you leave for work and then just leave it. You might be in for a week of punishment.</p>
<p>Yet another thing that Virgos despise are people that swear or use vulgar language. They like to perceive themselves and their companions as being more civilized than everyone else. This is also why you should mind your manners when you are a Virgo. They can be freaks about etiquette.</p>
<p>Never bring too many other people into your relationship if you want to keep the Virgo as a lover. Virgos work best one on one. They can be very jealous and might see your friends as time-consuming outsiders.  Virgos love to label people and compartmentalize their own social lives so that entire groups of friends may never cross. This is also why a Virgo is so clever when it comes to concealing an infidelity.</p>
<p>A Virgo might seem very tough but the weakness that Virgos have is for small furry animals. They love tiny pets like gerbils and hamsters and this might make a good gift for a Virgo. They also like exotic fish.  They don&#8217;t like large pets, which could leave dirt and mess around the house.</p>
<p>Yet another good gift for a Virgo is anything to do with aromatherapy or incense, as they love to perfume their environments. They also like art as long as the art piece does not intrude into their decorative scheme.</p>
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		<title>How to Woo a Leo</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are interested in a Leo you better get out your wallet because Leos like things to be done in grand style especially when it comes to courting. These arrogant creatures, which are ruled by the Sun, need to be treated like Royalty. A Leo will not have much to do with anyone who [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are interested in a Leo you better get out your wallet because Leos like things to be done in grand style especially when it comes to courting. These arrogant creatures, which are ruled by the Sun, need to be treated like Royalty. A Leo will not have much to do with anyone who is not willing to drop their agenda for his or hers.</p>
<p>Lions love luxury so make sure your pad is blinged out with the best bed, a comfortable couch and the finest in wine and fine snacks. They are also politically correct by nature so don&#8217;t take them to MacDonald&#8217;s or offer them a Coca-Cola or they will see you as being inethical.  </p>
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<p>If you are going out with a Leo woman take her to the most expensive designer shop you can find and let her pick out anything she wants. She will be yours.</p>
<p>If you are going out with a Leo man than make sure you constantly compliment in him as sincerely as you can about his ability to make money or potential to make a lot of money.  Make sure that he knows that you perceive him as some kind of maverick or genius. Leos love people who make them feel good.</p>
<p>A Leo can seem so charismatic and make one feel so special that it is hard to believe that you are not the only romance in his or her life. However usually the Leo has a litter of suitors or girlfriends waiting in the wings. Lions are masters at relating to people one or one and it is always to foolish to think that you are the &#8220;one and only.&#8221;  They not only have a Plan A, but a Plan B, C, D, E and F when it comes to romance.</p>
<p>As a Leo will always make sure that you have plenty of competition you need to keep on your toes. This means always meeting the Leo&#8217;s high expectations of you. You will always be expected to be in a good mood, to be entertaining and to be well dressed. You will also be a great listener as the Leo has plenty of stories to tell.  This is just what you need to do to keep the Leo in your life.</p>
<p>However it is important for you not to be too servile or the Leo will see you as boring and you will be banished from his or her kingdom. Anyone who has ever been dumped by a Leo knows that this really hurts. They are almost as scathing as Scorpios when it comes to rejection.</p>
<p>Although it is important to look good or be charming when you are with a Leo (so that he or she has something to boast about to his or her friends) it is a big mistake to upstage one. Think of your time with the Leo as being in a play where the Leo is the star and you are the bit player. </p>
<p>Usually a Leo will brief you about his or her expectations of you before you go out together, so remember to follow the script. Sometimes the Leo can get very upset if things don&#8217;t go according to his or her expectations.</p>
<p>Leos do like a challenge so playing a little bit hard to get cannot hurt. They tend to show the most sexual attraction to the person that they consider to be unattainable. In fact that might be the only way to attract this sign that can be very jealous.</p>
<p>The scenario you don&#8217;t want if you are attracted to a Leo is being an &#8220;ingredient in their life soup.&#8221; Leos collect people and then just keep them around to augment their sense of importance and also because they truly are really friendly.</p>
<p>Leos are adventurers so they respond well to first dates that have a bit of a challenge or adventure to them. Take a Leo on a long walk through the woods or a climb up a mountain. </p>
<p>They are also adventurers when it comes to food and drink.  A Leo would love to be sipping the latest martini in the coolest bar in the city. They also love designer food and going to art gallery openings and book launches.  </p>
<p>They are drama queens so they also love going to the movies. Adventure and horror flicks are their favorites as it gets their adrenalin up. They also like contentious documentaries because they like to debate the issues of the day. </p>
<p>As they love to feel special make sure that any gift that you give them is a bit of a status symbol. They love presents that are impeccably wrapped in designer paper. They love flowers but don&#8217;t give a Leo a handpicked bouquet. Find two dozen of the finest roses that you can find and make sure they are perfect blooms to impress this sign.</p>
<p>One thing that you should never do to a Leo is criticize them in public. They also do not like to be compared to ex lovers or other people in a room. In fact, they will also be offended if you compare them to a movie star.  It is supposed to go without saying that the Leo is &#8220;one of a kind.&#8221; </p>
<p>Although making a Leo jealous can be one way to get their attention be careful how you do this. They can be impulsive and vengeful and you may get a taste of your own medicine back!</p>
<p>Although they are in some ways quite self-centered and status conscious, Leos have a real soft spot for kids and pets. If you have a dog or are a single mother or father with really cute children then you will have better luck romancing a Leo. Of course if you happen to own a cat, that&#8217;s perfect!</p>
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		<title>How to Woo a Cancer</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are attracted to a Cancer native then get ready to do a lot of petting and stroking of the ego.  They are one of the highest maintenance of all of the signs. This sign craves physical contact and lots of affection. He or she also needs more than the usual amount of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are attracted to a Cancer native then get ready to do a lot of petting and stroking of the ego.  They are one of the highest maintenance of all of the signs. This sign craves physical contact and lots of affection. He or she also needs more than the usual amount of emotional reassurance as well. </p>
<p>What is most problematic about wooing a Cancer is the way you always have to show him or her that you are &#8220;working on the relationship.&#8221;  This means keeping your promises, always doing what you will say you will do and following through when you say you will do something to progress the relationship. </p>
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<p>This makes it hard to just casually mention anything to this sign because they have memories like elephants. For instance if you say you are thinking, &#8220;Maybe I will rent a cottage for us for the summer&#8221;, you better do it or the Cancer feel deprived. One of the worst things you can do to a Cancer is set up an expectation and then not meet it. Not only will you hear about it but so will all of the Cancer&#8217;s friends.</p>
<p>Unlike their symbol, the Crab, a Cancer does not stay in his or her shell. These individuals do really think that &#8220;it takes a village to raise a child.&#8221; They may think that it takes a village to do everything else too. One way to a Cancer native&#8217;s heart is to make a real effort to get along with his or her friends. You will also be expected to get along with the butcher, baker and babysitter as well.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t expect to get anywhere with a Cancer if his or her mother can&#8217;t tolerate you. Make sure that if you are invited over to dinner that you bring a gift for mom as Cancers are very much influenced by their mother&#8217;s opinion.</p>
<p>Furthermore you better have your relationship with your own mother in good standing as well. A Cancer does not like individuals who are on the wrong side of a parental figure.  As they are ruled by the moon, even the most artsy or anti-authoritarian of Cancers have a deep appreciation for their mothers.  The more in touch you are with your feminine side the better too!</p>
<p>Cancers are very sentimental in general. If they see that you love to take photographs of them with their loved ones then they will be deeply impressed. This is why a picture frame or a photo album is such a perfect gift for them.  </p>
<p>Missing an anniversary or important birth date is a big no no with this sign. It can be the deal-breaker that destroys the relationship so make sure you know what dates are significant to him and her. In fact, be sure to keep a record of everything that might possibly be a meaningful date to your Cancer lover including the day you met, the first time you had dinner together, the first time you had sex, etc. Celebrating these dates even in a minor way means the world to the Crab.</p>
<p>If you really want to woo a Cancer make a scrapbook or piece of wall art (like a collage) of your last date or trip together. This makes them feel like you understand them on a deep level. Cancers are very nostalgic and treasure records of their adventures with others until the end of their years.</p>
<p>Yet another thing that Cancers love are outings that include their children are family. A Cancer would appreciate a family picnic more then a trip to a fancy restaurant. </p>
<p>Cancers also like a person who is into entertaining others as much as they are. They love to have a good friend drop by everyday. If you are a good host or hostess and know how to make others feel comfortable you will capture their heart. </p>
<p>All Cancers love to cook. The men are particularly proud of their barbecuing. One of the worst things you can do to a Cancer is criticize his or her cooking. Even if the food is awful pretend it is delicious as Cancers quickly develop contempt for those people who do not share their taste in food. Unfortunately they are also picky eaters.</p>
<p>Cancers don&#8217;t react very well to stress so one of the secrets to keeping one forever is to not burden him or her with your problems. They also dislike being pushed into things such as making introductions or job interviews. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t make them take tests or playing games that require a great deal of mental concentration. Cancers are terrified of failing when they compete so involving them in sports related activities is also not the best idea.  They are more likely to be happy in a bar or a club where they can have lots of social interaction rather than in a theater where they have to sit through a play.</p>
<p>One of the worst things you can do to a Cancer is force them into public speaking. Never push him or her into making a toast or into getting up onstage to say something if they are not ready or you may never be spoken to again.</p>
<p>Cancer natives are students of human nature and they love to go people watching. Taking them to the mall, outdoor cafes and beaches is a great idea so they can observe everyone else. They also like to gossip and in fact when a Cancer loses a friend it is usually because the Cancer could not resist sharing a rumor.</p>
<p>Once Cancers develop a grudge it is also hard to get them to let go of it. Never tell a Crab who or why they should make peace with someone as they will think you are defending the other person and accuse you of being disloyal. Cancers get in quite a few disputes with others because they take everything so personally.  Be prepared to be a mediator if you get close to one.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are in love with a Gemini then you are going to have be prepared to give the object of desire a lot of space. A Gemini does not like to feel owned, smothered, restricted or limited in anyway. He or she feels burdened by the responsibility of having to respond to or take [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are in love with a Gemini then you are going to have be prepared to give the object of desire a lot of space. A Gemini does not like to feel owned, smothered, restricted or limited in anyway. He or she feels burdened by the responsibility of having to respond to or take care of your feelings. It is just not going to happen! So before you take on a Gemini make sure that you are not the type that can&#8217;t handle rejection. Most likely if you do have an emotional problem you will be told to deal with it.</p>
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<p>Also a Gemini may not respond in the usual predictable manner to familiar emotional stimuli. For instance it can take a Gemini a long time to realize that you want to be more than friends. This is because this eloquent and witty sign flirts continually without any intention of having a relationship. Both sexes are notorious teases that are always wondering how they ended up with so many stalkers.</p>
<p>Geminis are used to being surrounded by lots of suitors and lots of friends. Many of them are talents so you might also have to contend with an adoring public or a big social circle. So if you are a jealous type or require a lot of one on one time you may not necessarily get it from a Gemini.</p>
<p>Most Geminis think they live in a sitcom which must include a number of friends who visit them every day.  Oh and did I mention that most of these friends will be completely nuts?  Mercurial Geminis  have a way of seeing genius and brilliance where others only see incompetence and sloth. </p>
<p>There is no way you are going to escape the influence or judgement of this posse. In fact one common Gemini trait is for him or her to take a poll to see what all of the friends think of you before they make a move. </p>
<p>Yet another certainty is that no detail of your relationship will be kept discreet. Your every move will be analyzed and judged.  A select group of friends will know everything from when you first slept together to what you eat for breakfast to your most annoying habit. Geminis are gossips and raconteurs and they love to keep people updated on what is going on their latest soap opera.</p>
<p>In fact the number one reason that Geminis lose partners is because they tend to give all of their power to their friends and not the new relationship.  This is because every Gemini believes that friends last forever but lovers don&#8217;t.  This is why the friends always get the priority. To keep a Gemini you have to be a lover and a friend too!</p>
<p>If you want to impress a Gemini on a first date then go for excitement. They love speed, adventure and the great outdoors. A Gemini is exactly who you should be taking to an amusement park or water park on a first date. It is a Gemini that is voted most likely to hang upside down with you from a bungee cord.</p>
<p>They also love big parties and opportunities to social climb. Many of them are addicted to culture and are happiest at the movies, the theater or a book launch. If you know people in the arts you will impress a Gemini.</p>
<p>If you want to bore a Gemini to death then ask him or her over to dinner with just the two of you. Make a home cooked meal in an apartment without any windows. He or she will feel completed trapped and rather than succumb to any after dinner seduction ask where the two of you are going next. The key is to keep the Gemini on the move.</p>
<p>When it comes to giving a Gemini a gift they are very impressed by anything that has a bit of a novelty or that is a gadget of some kind such as a cell phone or kitchen appliance. They also love unusual watches and clocks. If it lights up digitally somehow, a Gemini will love it.</p>
<p>Gemini&#8217;s also love to read books and watch movies so DVD&#8217;s and any type of literature is also an appropriate gift. Magazine subscriptions are also the way to the Gemini heart. </p>
<p>Many of you who have crushes on this strange sign may be dismayed to learn that even though they are very attractive and often dress provocatively many are simply not that interested in sex. They like the idea of sex and the flirting and witty conversation that precedes it better than the actual act. </p>
<p>If you do manage to have sex with one of The Twins you will then be presented with the challenge of keeping the relationship. One key is to keep the relationship as formal and flirtatious as possible. It also helps to keep a Gemini wondering about what may happen next.  A curious Gemini is a happy one!</p>
<p>If you want to bond more closely with a Gemini or get him or her alone then suggest a long adventure together. A Gemini loves nothing more than to escape mundane reality by escaping an exotic land. This way they can write about it or pretend to be somebody else.</p>
<p>Make sure that this is not a static holiday where the two of you are trapped on some Caribbean compound with a golf course as the Gemini will just interpret this as a prison sentence in the sun.  Make sure you are trekking through the wilderness, visiting ancient mystical places or kayaking down a river. </p>
<p>Yet another secret to wooing a Gemini has to do with their personal habits. Most of them are complete slobs. They have a file by pile method of living. Many of them live out of their bodies and in their heads. If they see that you are at all willing to clean up for them or hire a maid for them then that is usually what seals the deal and delivers you into a long term relationship with this sign.</p>
<p>However don&#8217;t expect any nurturing back from a Gemini. Be prepared to put up with dirty dishes and clothes thrown all over the place. You may also be out of luck if you get sick. A Gemini does not have one nurturing bone in his or her body and will move on!</p>
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